Not sure what to do.....

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Registered: 06-03-2006
Not sure what to do.....
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Sat, 06-03-2006 - 4:40pm
Ok, I just broke up with a guy for the second time for him cheating on me. Now before ya'll go and say he's a butt, get over it, I wanna question something. I said that I would never take him back after the "second chance". I really wanna keep to my ideals but feel like my time with him isn't over. All though he won't tell me the reason he did this, I know he is a very outgoing and positive person. I have had a crush on him since 6th grade and he on me. I'm wondering if my depression was what made him leave and he was just too scared to tell me. He told my friend that he really, really cares for me and wants to get back at some point but not till I resolve all my issues. I don't know wheather to believe this or not. He has lied to me in the past and I respect my friends' opinions and they all tell me he is a butt and to move on to a real man.
It hurts cuz this is my first real "adult" relationship and we are both still kinda young. I just turned 25 and he's 24. Is it immiturity and should I reconcider in 5 or so years? We are having our space right now and he has someone else. I'm just don't know what to do.
Thanks to anyone who replies.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 06-05-2006 - 11:41am
Move on.