Not sure what to do

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Registered: 01-03-2005
Not sure what to do
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Fri, 08-12-2005 - 12:37pm


A little background info:

I was with my bf for 6 years. We broke up about a year and a half ago and have had no contact for the past year. He did try to contact me in the beginning but I ignored it and then he stopped. I have a new bf, I'm happy but he still runs through my mind everyday.

The problem: I found out by friends that he has gotten a job in another state and he is going to be moving in about 2 weeks. I want to contact him before he goes - or maybe I want him to contact me, I don't know. We were together for so long and we terminated on such bad terms that before I never see him again I want to talk to him. But I know we can't be friends, I know I should just let things go. If he wanted to contact me - he would right?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 08-12-2005 - 12:48pm

No, he wouldn't necessarily contact you since you made it clear you didn't want contact with him.

If I were in your situation, I would put myself in your new bf's shoes. How would you feel about him doing what you are thinking of doing?

Sheri