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| Sun, 06-11-2006 - 12:46pm |
Hi. I recently broke up with this guy (about a month ago). This relationship has been five years in the making. It's been five years made up of being friends and being a couple. He hasn't called, I haven't called since. I was wrong with some of the things that I said and did. I've conveyed the story with my friends both male and female. They think that I should contact him. I was planning on making contact after two - three months, but they think that that is too long. My questions are, any insight to why he hasn't called (I did tell him we couldn't be friends and I never wanted to see him again). Any insight to what value to put on my friend's advice?
He said some horrible things, I brought up the idea of a break up, he bought it.
Thanks so much.

Well, if I'm reading your post correctly and you told him you never wanted to see him again, I guess I'm confused as to why you are surprised you haven't heard from him? He's respecting what you told him.
Why do your friends think you should contact him? It's way too soon to be thinking about being friends...even a couple more months would be too soon after such a long relationship. So I'm not sure what the point would be of contacting him.
Sheri
....."My questions are, any insight to why he hasn't called (I did tell him we couldn't be friends and I never wanted to see him again).".....