Now I am really confused
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| Sun, 06-25-2006 - 9:54am |
I'm not sure what to do now even more concerning my ex. We broke up rather suddenly about a month ago. He had told me that he loved someone else and she has given the chance to get back together. At the tie I was very much in love with this man, he ment everything to me. He said he did not love me and loved her. I stayed calm and accepted what happen even though inside it was killing me. We enjoyed so much together, often would walk down to this trendy area of Toronto, go for drinks near th waterfront close to his work. Even though he was much older than me I truly found the one man who I could love forever.
Now I am confused, over the past two weeks he has been calling me. Asking how I'm doing and telling me he was sorry about what has happened. He has told me that things in his life have changed, he is drinking less but feels he is being pressured. He has told me that leaving me may have been a mistake. He is always under pressure because getting back with his ex he had to change many things in his life. He feels that he acted out of desperation because he was so jealous of her that she met someone who made her happier than he did. She also seperated from someone else to be back with him and now they spend so much time together that he feels he has no freedom and control. They have spent alot of time together and feels that he is always being watched and judged and this is not what he expected and told me with me he was much more at ease.
I'm so confused ! why is he doing this? I have tried to call him and go to his place but when I do I can see that she is always there. He calls me often now but mostly during the day when she is not around. I have asked him to stop but he refuses and wants to see me again to talk. I told him no, but in my heart I want to. Did he make a mistake and has realized it now, should I meet with him? We had so much fun together and I do want him back. What should I do?

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