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Now I understand NC
| Mon, 06-19-2006 - 7:03pm |
Now I understand the whole NC thing! I hadn’t spoken to my ex for 12 days, the last time we spoke was the day he left me without telling me. He kissed me goodbye and led me to believe I’d be seeing him the next day and that everything was great, then he sent the text message the next day…COWARD! Anyways, I was doing so well. Been going out with girlfriends, meeting a ton of new people, I even noticed this morning that he wasn’t the one on my mind. I went to Starbucks for lunch and was going through my text messages and decided I was ready to delete the break up message when low and behold who texts me but him. He said he missed me and he’s sorry he hasn’t called but he’s not ready, he said the kids asked about me this weekend and that I will always have a special place in their heart and to tell my dad happy fathers day for him. Immediately my eyes welled up and my body started shaking, I had to leave starbucks. I went to the car and bawled. It was like someone threw me into a cold pool in the middle of winter. Every word he wrote hit a nerve. Then it was like this woman I don’t know came out of me, I couldn’t stop texting him and telling him I miss him and asking him to go on a walk with me in our favorite town. BIG MISTAKE…because he didn’t respond and now I feel worse. I was doing so much better when he was ignoring me. I feel like I was climbing my ladder and he just had to come and knock me down a few rungs!

hi funlvnbabe23
his a totally a loser, no balls, no guts and totally a coward. i cant blame you for sending him a reply at all. but actually i'm assuming his just waiting for the right time..to talk to you on the phone or in person. give him some time.
maybe a month or so...you call him. dont wait for him to call you..if you could block your number or used the payphone for him to answer your call do it. talk to him get that closure you have the right to do that dear. i know its hard but you have to. for you to be free.
whatever your plan is GOOD LUCK