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Obsessed with ex
| Sat, 08-14-2004 - 12:53am |
I need help. I am obsessed with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up months ago but I cannot get over him. He wasn't even that great to me. I think he is seeing someone new and I am obsessed with it. I drive by his house late at night or early in the morning to see if he slept there or call his cell phone (blocking my caller ID). I know that he turns his phone off if he is with someone. It is crazy but I can't get past it. What can I do?

From an emotional standpoint, you really cannot afford to allow him to occupy so much of your mind. You have got to get busy doing the things in life that you enjoy. What do you like to do with your time? I love going to antique malls and looking for unique items to use in decorating my home. I also love to read and am in the process of preparing a manuscript for publication. On rainy days, I love watching old Audrey Hepburn or Doris Day classic movies.
Whatever you like to do with your time, get busy and enjoy life.
And one last thing -- FORGET HIM and move on!
Take care,
Heymum
So I have things that I know I can do when I am feeling kind of blue or missing him. (like tonight) I post on here, read, scrapbook, call other people, go out and do something really fun, etc.
You should think of a plan for whenever you have the urge to do one of the stalker-like maneuvers (and I say that with affection). One of my friends is in the same boat as I am, so we have a plan to call each other when the urge hits us.
There are so many more things in this world to worry about or spend time on. Obsessing over guys who no longer want us is not one of them!
I feel your pain. Take care of yourself!