OMG!!

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Registered: 01-05-2007
OMG!!
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Tue, 01-23-2007 - 6:18pm
Omg! hes bragging to EVERYONE that "the single life" is the way to go...Did I not mean anything?!?! He used to tell all his friends to find a girl and love her like shes the only one..And now hes running all over bragging to all the guys that single is best, and that they shouldnt waste their time with a girl because they only hold you back...And all of a sudden, out of nowhere, he called me a B*tch for no reason..I didnt do anything he just came online oneday and started trash talking to me. Whats gotten into him...I dont know what to do. Its like, we were friends one second, and then the next its like being single is the best things ever and hes never been better than without me..And then he starts talking trash to me? Im so confused..please help me
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Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: angel4259
Tue, 01-23-2007 - 6:35pm

Stop talking to him. Block emails, delete his number, take him off your contact list... don't bother trying to figure out why he's doing what he's doing.

Focus on you and your healing. Sorry you have to go through this.


Carrie

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Registered: 01-22-2007
In reply to: angel4259
Tue, 01-23-2007 - 8:15pm
Thats his way of dealing with the pain. He hasn't moved on from you, he doesn't believe the single life is the way to go. He's saying that to cover up how we really feels. He is trying to act like some tough guy on the outside, but really, he is hurting on the inside. Don't think it was something you did...it's all him.
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Registered: 01-18-2007
In reply to: angel4259
Wed, 01-24-2007 - 1:55pm

OPO

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>>>Have you ever heard of the old saying, "Wounded dog barks loudest"? I'm not so sure he's convinced that the single life is great and wonderful. The one time I ever had to break off a relationship with a woman, I KNEW it was the right thing to do for a couple of very good reasons but I still felt like the lowest SOB on earth. I don't think this guy's actions fit his feelings. He sounds like he's immature and lacks confidence in himself.

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>>>We don't know, do we? But there is a big difference between recognizing you are confused and moving on or dwelling on the confusion. That is indeed a recipe for driving yourself crazy. Why do it?

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>>>How about: (1)being happy that you found out that this guy is a head case when you did?(2)Shutting off all communication from or to him.(3)And moving on?

You are better than this guy deserves.

MG

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Registered: 11-03-2006
In reply to: angel4259
Wed, 01-24-2007 - 3:18pm

what i think is...your insulting him by being online other words..."his getting jealous"...lol

well i think your just in a good track so keep it up!!!