omg, i feel ill...whats this nightmare?!

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Registered: 08-08-2004
omg, i feel ill...whats this nightmare?!
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Mon, 05-02-2005 - 10:05am

im trying to get ready for work right now... but im BOTHERED by this HORRIBLE feeling...

i had a nightmare last night that my ex was dating a girlfriend of mine...
in reality, shes just recently started dating someone - and its NOT him...(THANK GOD)
but...what does this nightmare mean?? is it a preminition? is he actually dating someone?? are the *gods* trying to tell me something?? is my gut feeling trying to warn me?!

OMG - im going nuts now... i cant even fathom the thought of him with someone else...

i feel physically ill right now.. ILL.

im working near his area today too ... i need to breakdown right now.

maybe im overreacting - and i pray with all my might right now that im wrong - but this nightmare, has left me feeling like absolute CRAP

a sad,
eeksj

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Registered: 12-03-2004
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 11:23am

I have had dreams before similar to what you are saying. My best response is that your dreams are your subconscious pushing awareness and reality forward into your consciousness. It sounds like you are actually making a breakthrough and are now more ready to consciously deal with the truth, being that you two are not BF and GF.

I hate those dreams. I used to have them too but after experiencing them more than three times I realized that it is my gut telling me to "wake up and face it."

I know you miss him and this is hard, I'm going through a doozy of something right now myself but STAY strong and get yourself out there. I work out, clean, cook - anything to accomplish something so I dont bring myself too far down into a rut.

All of my very best,
isa

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Registered: 03-22-2004
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 2:43pm
I know what you are going through also. I haven't had any dreams about my situation yet, but I know about the ill feelings. I am sick to my stomach, can't eat, can't sleep and I can't focus at work. I am a dead girl walking. I know I am not the only one going through this and I think that is why I am here. I have been through this before and I know we have to hurt before we can heal. I understand where you are at. Hang in there and through others experiences maybe we can help each other get to the other side of the hurt.
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Registered: 01-30-2004
Mon, 05-02-2005 - 9:52pm
In my experience, you usually dream of things that you really want to happen or your biggest fears...in this case, I think you were just dreaming of your two biggest fears....not only the fear of him dating another, but someone close to you as well.
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