one day it stops hurting

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Registered: 10-28-2007
one day it stops hurting
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Tue, 11-06-2007 - 6:46pm

Ok this might sound weird but over the past two days i have really got so much better its as if a switch has been fliked in me i feel so good about myself and for the first time in over two months i am thinking about something else other than my ex its great! I was just wondering for thoese of you who have gotten over a past relationship did this happen so suddenly for you? The weirdest thing is he phoned me and we talked and it was strange but not bad and ever since then i have felt great it was as if i got the closure i needed. there was no talk of getting back together or even keeping in touch he just foned to see how i was and what i was doing now and that was it. I don't even feel compelled to get back intouch with him or anything i haven't even wondered what he was doing or if he was thinking about me or any of the usual stuff that goes through my help.


A big thankyou to all of you guys who gave me advice i know that it partially helped me come to the good place i am in just now.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 8:42pm

Good news to hear, remember it's a process. To answer your question, yes, pretty much one day you just end up realizing you didn't think of him that day. It comes pretty quietly.

Good luck,

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Registered: 07-11-2006
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 9:04pm

I think you have alot of strength to talk to him over the phone, and not letting it put you into a funk. Keep up the good work.


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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 11-06-2007 - 10:19pm
Thanks for sharing, their are a few here need the encouragement. ;)