One week..

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Registered: 12-05-2004
One week..
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Sat, 09-10-2005 - 5:06pm
One week ago we broke up. He texted me to see how I was. I didn't respond. So he texted me again and said that it wouldn't happen again. Now I want to call him. I will not call him. It's been an okay week. I am tired of thinking of him. Thinking of what he could be doing, if he thinks about me, just everything! I am tired of it What does everyone else do to get you mind off of him. I am going shopping today and out tonight, but I don't have enough money to go shopping all the time.
Hope you are having a good weekend. Thanks for letting me vent. I always feel I can come here and vent
Megan
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Registered: 05-16-2003
In reply to: avshockyfan
Sat, 09-10-2005 - 9:25pm
Hi avshockyfan. Good for you for not calling! I know exactly how you feel! To me, when I don't text or call, I feel I'm making progress in the healing stage! It's been a little less than a month 1/2 for me, and I still feel like I'm in the beg. But I'm going to be coming here more often, so that's what you should do too when you think about calling or texting him. So get prepared to listen to me whine, and vent! That's the beauty of computers! I love them!
I don't have any ideas for what you could do to keep your mind off of him, only because I'm always thinking of my ex too! I try and try to stop thinking about him, but nothing works! The only thing that really works for me is concentrating on my dd, she's going to be 6 next month. But you know I'm so sick and tired of hearing I have to concentrate on myself and my daughter!! Sure that's the only thing I can do for myself and her, but stop saying it already!! augh!!Hehe..
Take care of yourself have a good weekend..
Gina
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Registered: 04-25-2003
In reply to: avshockyfan
Sat, 09-10-2005 - 9:55pm

Hi.

It's also been a week for me, although I don't know if we broke up or not. The last thing he did was hang up on me just because I was trying to tell him he was neglecting my needs.

I feel like calling him up right now, but I know I shouldn't do it. HE should be the one to call me. After all, he's the one who said that he would get a phone card once his unemployment check came in (his cellphone service is turned off). Well, I know the check must've came in already and now, it's Saturday and still no phone call from him. I see it now that he wouldn't place me first.

I don't have any tips on how to not think about him, sorry. All I know is that I'm gonna be keeping myself busy in the next month or so with classes. I kept myself busy today by watching my two nephews. Tonight (and I guess all other nights from now on) will be hard because that's when he seems to come to mind. Plus, everytime the phone rings, I keep thinking it's him trying to call me. I even find myself constantly pressing the button on the answering machine to see if I have any messages.

By the way, I haven't mentioned about this to my sister yet. Only this board knows so far. She really wasn't supportive the first time we broke up, so this time, I'd like to keep it quiet until I'm ready to tell her (probably when I'm ready to move on).

We'll get through the rest of the weekend!

Take care of yourself.
--nygirl718