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| Fri, 02-01-2008 - 6:54pm |
I am asking this question because there is a guy that I like that I think lies me but I have some concerns.
Does anyone know the statistics on this?
First of all, I realize that it depends on the situation BUT what is the LIKELIHOOD of two people that lived together for a couple/few years and split up to end up back together and potentially marry(like 20%, 50%, 70% chance they will get back)?
These people broke up twice already and the girl left the guy. Also, I think that still in touch occasionally because they shared a pet and she visits this pet occasionally at his apartment.
Does anyone know the statistics on this?
First of all, I realize that it depends on the situation BUT what is the LIKELIHOOD of two people that lived together for a couple/few years and split up to end up back together and potentially marry(like 20%, 50%, 70% chance they will get back)?
These people broke up twice already and the girl left the guy. Also, I think that still in touch occasionally because they shared a pet and she visits this pet occasionally at his apartment.

Welcome to the board hellolisa1970,
I've not read stats on what you asked. Hopefully if someone else has they will reply to you.
Hmmm, I don't like statistics, it's a pretty fatalistic way to live your life. If everyone lived their lives by statistics, no one would get married, no one would have children after 30, and there wouldn't be anyone driving any cars, period.
The ony thing that matters in your relationship is how YOU act in it, feel about it, treat it. That's it. If the situation with his ex is not one you're comfortable with, don't put up with it. That doesn't mean sit there and gripe about it, what it means is you tell him this doesn't work for me, see what he does about it, and if what he does about it (or doesn't do) is not to your liking, you get out because not only do you have a responsibility to yourself to find and create, nurture the very best life you can for yourself, but he does he have the right to live his life any way he wants. If hanger-on ex-girlfriends don't fit into your picture, then they don't and you don't need to make any excuses for that.
Best of luck,
Thanks for everyone's help....she already moved out of his apartment twice (not once)....not sure if I was clear on that.
Thanks for any feedback. I appreciate it!
Hi I do not have any statistics, but I have personal experience with this situation.