Perhaps it is a bit ridiculous

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Registered: 05-04-2004
Perhaps it is a bit ridiculous
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Sun, 07-30-2006 - 11:09pm
Hello, My name is Laurena.

 

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Registered: 11-21-2003
Sun, 07-30-2006 - 11:36pm

It's possible that this guy's life is indeed in turmoil. It's possible that he has issues that he considers personal and that's the reason why he doesn't call you or return your calls. By your post, you seem very absorbing and clingy, needy. You call and call and text and don't wait for an asnwer. You're suffocating him. You go around his roommates and friends asking for him and his father. That's not a good thing. He's telling you with his actions that he's not interested in a relationship with you. He may feel depressed over his father's health and issues that his head is not working in your favor. He's been disrespectful to you by not returning your calls and such, yes, but he may be afraid that facing you to talk may lead into more drama. Back off for a while. Let him call you. If you want closure, give it to you, yourself, and move on.

Another possibility for him not talking to you is your status as separated. You're still married so why date you if you can't get married to him and, perhaps, you could go back to your husband leaving him hanging.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 4:58pm

I agree with pretty much everything that lightandbright said.

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Registered: 05-04-2004
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 8:27pm

Thank You both for your responses.

 

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 8:56pm

I'm gonna have to throw a flag on this one, sorry.

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