Please don't judge me, help me :(

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Please don't judge me, help me :(
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 4:54pm

I don't know where to start and where to end.

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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 6:53pm
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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 1:28pm

Not really sure what to tell you, since you've pretty much made up your mind that you have no power over yourself to stop talking to him, that you're pretty certain that nothing can stop you from seeing him,

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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 2:01pm

Thats true, I can tell myself that but it will only work if I really feel what I say.

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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 3:54pm

I had to respond to this part and then I'll drop it:


....."It is easy to say something, but if If the feeling doesn't match the word then it will never work.".....

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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 5:52pm

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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 7:50pm

Blue - Hi. What I'm hearing is that you are working out things, right? Can you be supportive of your ex until he gets help? I'm unsure of your entire story - but it sounds like you both are trying to work through things. I don't think you need to do no contact if you are working things out?! If he needs to get help - then you have to let him decide. He may never.