please help a.s.a.p

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Registered: 09-28-2006
please help a.s.a.p
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Sun, 02-11-2007 - 12:30pm
me & my bf of 2 years & 7 months is now over i'm 17 & hes 19 but im soooo in love with him. we've been through every thing togeher.good & bad he called me up and said it was over one day but i didnt find out about his gf till after.i feel so horrible. & im so depressed.and we had our plans well thouht out.and everyone thought we were great together i also feel like we may never speak again :-( (cries) what should i do? plzzzz help before i go crazy.thankx
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Registered: 01-29-2007
Sun, 02-11-2007 - 3:43pm

I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. I know it hurts, and him having a girlfriend makes it hurt worse. Try to keep in mind, though, that his new gf has nothing to do with how he felt about you. This is important, not because you necessarily need to focus on how he felt about you, but because you need to try your best not to compare yourself to this new girl. I guarantee there is someone in her past who didn't want her, and there will be plenty in her future, too. She's not better than you; for some reason, he just thinks she's better for him. That doesn't make you ANY less.

You know what--you need to hold your head high and keep your eye out for those guys that are going to be crazy about you and wouldn't consider leaving you and picking up with someone new so soon. They're out there, and it's good this loser is gone so that you'll be available when you meet one of them.
I know it hurts right now, though, I'm so sorry.

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Registered: 09-28-2006
Sun, 02-11-2007 - 3:56pm
thanks so much but i was really shocked when he called me up & said this.now theyre both on each other hi 5 page now i dont kno if this is suppose to make me jealous or what. and jus what youre telling me my best friend and close family told me so thanks so so much i'll keep u guys updated on how im doing
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 02-11-2007 - 4:16pm

Hi cuteness_17 and welcome to the board.

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Registered: 09-28-2006
Mon, 02-12-2007 - 2:22pm
i also feel terrible because valentines is just around the corner(cries) & its like my conversations are about him.im so lost & always feel depressed. i havent call because it wouldnt changethe facts that we cud get bak together especially when he dumped me( such horible word).i gave him everything i had & more
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 02-12-2007 - 2:55pm

I understand how you feel with Valentine's day almost here....it means a lot to some people, to other's it's 'just another day', still others think why can't we show how much someone means to us every day.


So, do something nice for yourself.