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Please help me tonight
| Sat, 02-23-2008 - 7:44pm |
Hi everyone I broke up with my boyfriend of several (5) years very recently. I know it was the right thing to break up because all we did was fight and he was treating me like garbage... lying, probably cheating, yelling at me and making me feel bad about myself. We broke up about a month ago and it felt good I felt free! But we ended up getting BACK together. Last Sunday we got into a huge fight and I ended it again. We haven't spoken since last Sunday. I felt good all week. I KNOW this is the right thing for me. I KNOW I will never marry this man and will never have a future with him. He doesn't have a job or a place to live and I'm in grad school, with my own apartment. I have a bright future and he does not. Rationally I know I cannot and should not be with him. Tonight I am a mess! I want to call him so bad. I'm sad and crying. Please someone tell me NOT to call him! I'm doing the right thing already, I called two girlfriends and I'm waiting for them to come get me to take me to dinner. I am leaving my cell phone at home. Hopefully by the time I get back the urge to call will have passed. If not please someone tell me not to? I need support. :(


Hi sassy1184,
While you are waiting for your friends, consider writing out what you want to say to him AND how you think the conversation will go.