please I am desperate...help me
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please I am desperate...help me
| Sat, 01-26-2008 - 7:27am |
My boyfriend and i just broke up..well we havebt really been going out for 2 months. I made a whole bunch of mistake like a whole lot and now he just cant take it anymore. I know that he loves me but he says he doesnt think he ever will be able

Welcome to the board lilcarmencita,
Being desperate, needy or clingy is not attractive and even though you want to 'prove' yourself, give him exactly what he asked for, the time off.
he IMed me yesterday..this is how the convo went..i dont know what is means.
Well, you can't actually make anyone see anything, they either do or they don't, but they're most certainly not going to simply because you want it to be that way, or because you want it now.
Thank you so much I am glad that i have this message board and many peoples great advice.
I realize now that all of you were correct. I was acting desperate and needy. No matter what I did if steven loves me and cares for me as much as he claimed that he did then I'm sure he'll come back to me and we can work on it..but if he doesn't then maybe he ddnt love me as much as i thought he did... All it takes is my patience... Dont worry i havent spoken to him.
He then text me 2 days later saying "y did you block me? i still wanna be friends you crackhead".. i reseponded with "i am not blocking you ive just been busy with school" and then he said "okay fine then goodbye" his away message said later that night "Nobody likes me but that's ok I don't like u anyway f*ck all ya" ....yes yes he is being childish...it seems like he hates the world bcuz of all my mistakes but I believe he'll get over it..and if he doesnt its really not my problem. I did all that i could... if he doesnt know by now how much i truly love him ..well what can i do right? i did all i could
but right now as I wait i shall focus on my studies and hang out with my friends and have a good time. I love him but he needs to get over it on his own
I am so proud of you....what a switch-a-roo!
You just keep coming to these boards...if you want to be needy.
Thanks...i still miss him a whole whole lot tho...and i really wish hed come around but i shall be as patient as possible...it still sucks that sometimes i would have a dream of him and then wake up...
hes soo angry right now...hes all like screw everything and everybody..i do what i want ...i feel helpless because only he can get himself out of this rut. i just really want my old stevie back..the sweet sweet one who would leave notes in my locker and surprise me with chocolate and stuff everytime i met up with him...
but yes as you say it takes time =/