please tell me not to cave in
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| Tue, 04-24-2007 - 11:45am |
in case u don't kno, my ex left me for someone else about two months ago and since then i refuse to respond to him even though we work together and e tried to speak with me on several occasions.
my co-worker told me that she was talking to my ex last friday and asked about "us" be cause she didn't kno everything that went on. to make it brief she asked him y he decided to go into another relationship right after a new one and he said something to the fact that he didn't want to be sad about the breakup and that i seemed like i didn't want to be with him anyways and this new girl wanted to be his girlfriend (his words). however, he was just so nonchalant in telling her that we dated and broke up blah blah blah. soo i don't kno. so, is this new girl a rebound? not sure. it sucks b-cuz we work together, but i physically cannot talk to him because he hurt me so badly.
of course this story contradicts the others that i heard, but seems to make more sense to me. i don't know what to believe anymore. i got the " my family doesn't approve" story from him and the " we are too different... my new gf likes to drink with me and my ex never did" story from another co-worker.
i'm not sure ,but after hearing this i feel like this is all about miscommunication. i definitely won't go back to him because i feel so hurt, but could this have been avaoided had we been more mature and talked? it sucks when the revelation comes after the fact.
huh, for some reason i feel like we should talk because we still work together and since i am ignoring him, we have not been talking at all. i don't kno what to do.

What would you gain from talking to him?