Pushing to end it
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Pushing to end it
| Thu, 11-01-2007 - 2:53pm |
I've always have had problems with relationships. I date the wrong guys. Don't we all?
This one guy just fell into my lap while i was dating a complete a**hole. We where absolutely comfortable around each other. After learning that my current bf cheated on me with my sister. I called it quits and dated Tim. Tim is the nice, outgoing, do anything for you type person. He helped me kick the drinking and the drugs. We where both a blessing to have each other. Me, always thinking things won't work out, started drifting back into being a complete a**hole. Always angry, never letting him vent, always complaining about my life. After 2 1/2 years he called it quits. He told me to find what makes me happy, then maybe we could be together. He told me about a month and a half ago that he doesn't love me anymore. I know i'm stubborn. I just really don't think it's true. I know i made his life "miserable". Am i too blind to see the truth? Well the other day he posted a poem. A confusing one at that. So many mixed emotions. Should i bother trying to win the love of my life back or just let him make the moves? Thanks, Annie
This one guy just fell into my lap while i was dating a complete a**hole. We where absolutely comfortable around each other. After learning that my current bf cheated on me with my sister. I called it quits and dated Tim. Tim is the nice, outgoing, do anything for you type person. He helped me kick the drinking and the drugs. We where both a blessing to have each other. Me, always thinking things won't work out, started drifting back into being a complete a**hole. Always angry, never letting him vent, always complaining about my life. After 2 1/2 years he called it quits. He told me to find what makes me happy, then maybe we could be together. He told me about a month and a half ago that he doesn't love me anymore. I know i'm stubborn. I just really don't think it's true. I know i made his life "miserable". Am i too blind to see the truth? Well the other day he posted a poem. A confusing one at that. So many mixed emotions. Should i bother trying to win the love of my life back or just let him make the moves? Thanks, Annie

Welcome to the board Annie,
I'd strongly recommend you take some time to work on you. Make you your #1 project.
Reading material to consider:
What Smart Women Know, Steven Carter & Julia Sokol
Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis
The Four Agreements, Miguel Ruiz