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| Wed, 09-29-2004 - 2:39pm |
Hey there everyone! I have a Question- Is it my business?
Me and my X broke up after an 8 year relationship 2 and 1/2 months ago. I just found out this weekend that he had sex with one of my former co-workers (she runs around the same circle of friends). We broke up on my side because he didnt want to go any further in the relationship than what we had and the same girl from work had been a little too flirty with him and he claimed nothing would happen but later after we broke up it did. He broke up with me because somehow I was beginning to do things that annoyed him such as not putting stuff back in the right places of the house, accidentaly leaving makeup on towels etc- hes very anal. He felt like I was pushing him away by doing these things. I was just under alot of stress at the time. My question to all of you is how soon after a long term relationship should someone be out there having sex (not to mention the co-worker situation because thats another problem)? Second thing is he claims it was non of my business since we had broken up so how long after the relationship ends should it be non of my business? Betrayal- I hope non of you have to ever go through it! Please respond- Thank you- stacy
Me and my X broke up after an 8 year relationship 2 and 1/2 months ago. I just found out this weekend that he had sex with one of my former co-workers (she runs around the same circle of friends). We broke up on my side because he didnt want to go any further in the relationship than what we had and the same girl from work had been a little too flirty with him and he claimed nothing would happen but later after we broke up it did. He broke up with me because somehow I was beginning to do things that annoyed him such as not putting stuff back in the right places of the house, accidentaly leaving makeup on towels etc- hes very anal. He felt like I was pushing him away by doing these things. I was just under alot of stress at the time. My question to all of you is how soon after a long term relationship should someone be out there having sex (not to mention the co-worker situation because thats another problem)? Second thing is he claims it was non of my business since we had broken up so how long after the relationship ends should it be non of my business? Betrayal- I hope non of you have to ever go through it! Please respond- Thank you- stacy

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