a question for the guys here
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a question for the guys here
| Tue, 09-20-2005 - 11:41am |
Why is it as soon as you split up, the man, it seems in my case both times, gets right into the dating seen and quickly? For me, I need to process this mess and get back to me first. Do they forget us so quickly?

I've got some ideas, but actually, men are all individuals, all different (and I have seen some women toss themselves immediately back into the meat market).
Some reasons:
They weren't that deep in the relationship to begin with. Had one or even both feet out. Maybe already picked out their next victim.
Desperation and fear of being alone or not having the status of couple-hood. Needing a distraction from the pain of a breakup or needing someone to build up a shaky sense of self.
Just gotta have sex.
Not knowing or wanting to know how to run the washing machine/balance a checkbook/ support oneself...
People. People who need people... are the luckiest people in the world. LOL!!!