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| Wed, 12-29-2004 - 10:57pm |
To make a long looong story short ill put it like this. I dated this guy for a while, i really liked him but thought there was something wrong. I broke it off with him one night when he bassically said he didnt know if he was using me or not but then he begged me to stay. Later that week he talked to me again and said I was right and we shouldnt see each other anymore. I thought things would go back to normal,as in, like before we dated (we work and live together) but he started acting moody and upset whenever i was around. He then came looking for me and told me he felt bad for leading me on cuz his feelings for me where never that strong. He said he felt guilty thus the reason for his behavior. I was upset but it gave me a good reason to let him go. Well later we went on a trip with some friends and there we both got drunk. SInce i was drunk i really didnt care so i approached him, asking him why he acted as if he hated me. He just kept saying i deserve better but then he broke down and we started kissing.It was a rather messy situation, a lot of things came up, but mainly that the reason why he broke up with me was because he couldnt forget a girl he met before we went out. He said he loved me and missed me and then he started crying saying he never meant to hurt me. We kissed and talked for a while but afterwards i just figured we were both drunk so it didnt mean much. However, a couple of days after we saw each other again at work. Apparently what happened during the trip changed something in him. He said he didnt remember much but when people teased us about making out he would look at me and smile. I also saw him looking at me from across the room with an expresion i havent seen since we dated. I dont know what to think, I know most of what was said, at least from his oart was due to alcohol, but mostly i know i cant be with him. I refused to be second best, however, i cant help my feelings for him. I really dont know how to get out of this messy triangle.

I feel like a doctor of sorts giving the same advice to the same kinds of problems, but instead of saying "take two asprin and call me in the morning" my advice is:
1)No contact until you've read:
2)"He's Just Not That Into You"
3)"Why Men Love Bitches"
4)"He's Scared, She's Scared"
Ask your local librarian to get them for you for free or buy them at your local bookstore.
Too many headgames going on with this guy. Do yourself a favor and get your own head and emotions squared away before opening yourself to further pain. Good Luck...