Rebound?? HELP!
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Rebound?? HELP!
| Thu, 07-29-2004 - 10:18pm |
Don't even know where to start.. Well, here we go.
I was with my ex for 1.5 years and he has depression problems and very insecure, when on the other hand I was ALWAYS the happy one. I was trying to get him out and made so many attempts to snap him out of it, instead I became insecure and negative myself. Anyway, the relationship started going downhill, we met the whole new group of people and they were really cool especially one girl who I thought was really really fun. Little did I know, my ex thought the same thing, I did have a funny feeling something was up, but thought that I was just being paranoid. But I WAS right. A month after we broke up I told one of my best friends Tee that I have a funny feeling about them. She just looked at me and said that I wasn't wrong, that he had feelings for that woman. Tee was good friends with him too, but hated being stuck in the middle so she made her choice to be by me. I was histerical as you can imagine. So next day I went to his house and confronted him and he said that it was true. I cried and said some stupid things like I was willing to try again bla bla He just kept saying how sorry he was and that I should be happy that this new girl will be dealing with his problems and not me. He also said that I was a lot cuter than her. WHAT?? Anyway, I met this guy a three weeks ago and we just been seeing each other every now and then. I don't want anything serious, its just sex really. Yesterday I found out that my ex took that girl to Melbourne for a weekend of shopping!! Thats where I always planned to go with him. I assume that he did it because he found out about this guy? We share lots of same friends and I'm sure someone said something... I feel really angry! How do I get through this??
I was with my ex for 1.5 years and he has depression problems and very insecure, when on the other hand I was ALWAYS the happy one. I was trying to get him out and made so many attempts to snap him out of it, instead I became insecure and negative myself. Anyway, the relationship started going downhill, we met the whole new group of people and they were really cool especially one girl who I thought was really really fun. Little did I know, my ex thought the same thing, I did have a funny feeling something was up, but thought that I was just being paranoid. But I WAS right. A month after we broke up I told one of my best friends Tee that I have a funny feeling about them. She just looked at me and said that I wasn't wrong, that he had feelings for that woman. Tee was good friends with him too, but hated being stuck in the middle so she made her choice to be by me. I was histerical as you can imagine. So next day I went to his house and confronted him and he said that it was true. I cried and said some stupid things like I was willing to try again bla bla He just kept saying how sorry he was and that I should be happy that this new girl will be dealing with his problems and not me. He also said that I was a lot cuter than her. WHAT?? Anyway, I met this guy a three weeks ago and we just been seeing each other every now and then. I don't want anything serious, its just sex really. Yesterday I found out that my ex took that girl to Melbourne for a weekend of shopping!! Thats where I always planned to go with him. I assume that he did it because he found out about this guy? We share lots of same friends and I'm sure someone said something... I feel really angry! How do I get through this??

I was always at my b/f when other girls would text him on his mobile,
It was an insecurity that I had brought from past relationships and just couldn't get over,
I feel that to have insecurties like that it really lies deep down about the entire relationship,
I was actually so insecure about the relationship I had with my boyfriend that it really wasn't the girls texting him that got to me it was everything about the relationship.
I feel that when going out with someone you get to know them pretty well,
And when you get a gut instict about problems,
Go with them cause most the time we are correct!
Go out and see this new guy,
Your ex seems like he's well and truely moved on, so should you!