Recent Break-up

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2007
Recent Break-up
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Mon, 10-08-2007 - 6:07pm

Yesterday, I found out that my boyfriend of two years has been cheating on me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: ms_flaxen
Mon, 10-08-2007 - 10:58pm

Welcome to the board ms_flaxen,


Congrats on sticking with sobriety!

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Registered: 06-18-2007
In reply to: ms_flaxen
Tue, 10-09-2007 - 10:17am

Ms Flaxen.


I know so much how you feel. I went through the same thing. I'm 45, and recently broke up with a guy that I'd had a 2 yr relationship with. He was cheating, most of which I found out after I left him. He took my money and exploited my good nature. It's the worst kind of betrayal, to love someone with all your heart and have them treat you that way. It's been hard but it's been worth it. Take time to heal, spend time with friends, and read read read, fill your mind with good thoughts. Karma will happen. Someday you'll meet someone that will appreciate you for who you are and the love you can give them. You deserve that.

If someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
If someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2007
In reply to: ms_flaxen
Tue, 10-09-2007 - 3:42pm

Ms. Flaxen


First I want to congratulate you on getting sober.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2007
In reply to: ms_flaxen
Tue, 10-09-2007 - 4:29pm

ms flaxen


Sorry I missed that last part about how the realtionship has been a detriment to your sobriety.

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Registered: 10-08-2007
In reply to: ms_flaxen
Wed, 10-10-2007 - 2:29pm

I appreciate the comments and feedback.