Recent Breakup has me confused! HELP

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Registered: 07-13-2005
Recent Breakup has me confused! HELP
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Wed, 07-13-2005 - 2:56pm

Hello everyone,
I have been in a relationshp for the last 5 years, just two weeks ago my b/f was mad at me and hung the phone up. He didnt call me back for five days. We had problems in the past because when I met him I was 20 and he was 30. I was young at the time and into cheating on him. Now that all these yrs past we still remained to be together with breaking up om and off. Anyhow I have been thru so much with him and it seems like this time it doesnt really phase me.....he wants to get back with me and I do love him but have douts in my mind about being together again? I dont know what I'm going thru because this is the first time I'm feeling this way, usally I run right back to him? Help me.

Trisha

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Registered: 01-30-2004
Wed, 07-13-2005 - 10:26pm
If you're having doubts about getting back with him then I WOULD NOT go back to him.
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Registered: 07-13-2005
Thu, 07-14-2005 - 9:42am

Thanks for the advice......Is it normal that I still love him deeply inside and I just have a fear of whats next?

Trisha

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Registered: 04-29-2005
Thu, 07-14-2005 - 6:30pm

Trisha,

Oh my gosh, yes. It is totaly normal to still love him. My boyfriend just broke up with me on June 4th, I still love him very much. And yes, I'm so so scared of what's next for me in life. We bought a house together and everything. You sound like a wonderful woman and I'm sure your sick of the on and off again. It's hard for me to see the light at the end of the breakup tunnel, but it's their. I know you can imagin it now, but their is someone better, more willing to love you as your are and not break your heart everytime you break up. I hope this helped a tiny bit. I will try my best to support you through this hard time. Good luck and I hope to talk to you soon. :D

-Katie