Recommended Reading?

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Registered: 09-29-2006
Recommended Reading?
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Thu, 01-11-2007 - 4:55pm
What are some of you guys' favorite books for breakups, healing, improving your life, finding new love, etc, etc? I know I have read numerous posts where books were suggested but can't remember them all. Is there a place on the board where references like this are posted?
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Registered: 12-18-2006
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 5:18pm
My two favorites are "Why Men Love Bitches" and "Why Men Marry Bitches". They'll make you feel much better!
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Registered: 06-22-2006
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 5:26pm

Here's one post that had a few of the more popular titles.


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlbreaking/?msg=21300.1


My favorite is Relationship Rescue by Phillip McGraw.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 01-11-2007 - 5:34pm

The Greg Behrendt book you know about.

Sandra listed some excellent books about relationships in general--I would add "A Fine Romance" by Judith Sills to that list.

For breakup specific books, I'd add "Don't Call That Man" by Rhonda Findling, and "Letting Go" by Zev Wanderer and Tracy Cabot. That was written back in the 70s soo it's outdated in some respects (and I don't think their 12 week timeline is at all realistic), but it has some GREAT ideas and techniques in it for letting go (that's where I originally got the basis for the thought-stopping and index card techniques that are on the board website).

Sheri

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Registered: 08-04-2003
Fri, 01-12-2007 - 2:18pm

In addition to the recommendations you've already gotten, I would add:

Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis

In the Meantime, Iyanla Vanzant

Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy – David D. Burns, MD

Learning to Love Yourself: Finding Your Self-Worth, by Sharon Wegscheider Cruse


Carrie

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Registered: 11-09-2006
Fri, 01-12-2007 - 3:37pm
yes definatly read why men love bitches, why men marry bitches. but first read Its called a breakup because its broken.