Reconciliation, or more heartbreak?

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Registered: 01-22-2008
Reconciliation, or more heartbreak?
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Fri, 01-25-2008 - 9:13pm

Hi again to all, I posted a few days ago about my breakup back in early December.

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Fri, 01-25-2008 - 11:40pm

This is the same guy who told you he had fallen out of love with you?

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Sun, 01-27-2008 - 12:50am

"He knows he could come back anytime."

Straight to the point - why would you let him do that? I don't mean play hard to get games, but to respect yourself as somebody that is very much deserving of not just any love, but love from a solid loving relationship. Any man who puts a woman on a corner while he potters up and down the street trying to make a decision should expect to find that corner empty when he comes back. I'm NOT crossing out the possibility of a reconciliation in the future for both of you, but nobody says you have to wait while he decides. Plus, he's easy for him to remain in limbo since you're always willing and waiting. I had an ex who kept bouncing between myself and his ex girlfriend. I packed up and left for university 3 months later, and he literally decided that same day that he wanted to make it work.

And as for the new guy, if you were in his position, how would you feel? Not great I assure you.


- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your past - there's a reason they didn't make it into your future.
- There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. So don't worry about people from your