Very interesting you feel this way; I too have been posting lately about something similiar. I broke it off with my ex after 3 years. I feel like you, yet I was not rejected exactly. He had a hook up a year ago, we reconciled and I ended it again mainly because of trust issues. Although I also do not miss him....but I am enraged at the thought of him with someone else!
Maybe in a way I was rejected the night he hooked up with the other girl, I dont know. I do know he wants to be with me and back together and it is not happening. I have told him to move on- yet I get so upset (especially on the weekends) wondering who he is hooking up with or hitting on, or just plain interested in.
I didn't realize you were actually replaced!! I'm so sorry- I guess that does change how you might feel. I thought you were hypothesizing, like I was.
I am sure you are feeling rejection- that is only natural. I hope I understood you correctly when you said you don't miss him- if so, that is probably a good sign that you have come to terms with this.
Hope things look brighter soon, for you and all of us on this board!
jbro
Very interesting you feel this way; I too have been posting lately about something similiar. I broke it off with my ex after 3 years. I feel like you, yet I was not rejected exactly. He had a hook up a year ago, we reconciled and I ended it again mainly because of trust issues. Although I also do not miss him....but I am enraged at the thought of him with someone else!
Maybe in a way I was rejected the night he hooked up with the other girl, I dont know. I do know he wants to be with me and back together and it is not happening. I have told him to move on- yet I get so upset (especially on the weekends) wondering who he is hooking up with or hitting on, or just plain interested in.
Hi lovergrl
Could be.
I didn't realize you were actually replaced!! I'm so sorry- I guess that does change how you might feel. I thought you were hypothesizing, like I was.
I am sure you are feeling rejection- that is only natural. I hope I understood you correctly when you said you don't miss him- if so, that is probably a good sign that you have come to terms with this.
Hope things look brighter soon, for you and all of us on this board!