restarted n/c........want to contact
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restarted n/c........want to contact
| Fri, 02-25-2005 - 11:32am |
i just re-started the no contact thing with the ex as of yesterday. we've been broken up nearly 2 wks from our 2 yr relationship. he started emailing me and text messaging me earlier this week while he is out of the country. i finally made him answer point blank if he wanted to get back together. he said "i don't know" so I said, it's not a proposal, i just wanted to see what your intentions were. i then e'm him and asked him to please quit emailing me. i also recently found out that one of his supposed friends seems to be interested in him as more than a friend and he hasn't denied any romantic interest in her. thus, i concluded his "i don't know" answer means that he wants to see what's going to happen with this girl and keep me on the back burner until he knows for sure. i told him i was not doing that and please quit emailing me. he has stopped emailing me and now i am staring at my email in box hoping i get an email.................something.........anything...........even if it's something mean. i am not busy at work which makes it MUCH worse because i am just sitting here. i want to contact him to ask him what, i don't know. i can't divert my attention because i just have to sit here for the next 8 hours. i'm driving myself crazy. i also just realized, a little slow, that he didn't start communicating with me until he was out of town. while he was in town he was too busy hanging out with his new special friend and didn't care to contact me. why can't i just hate him (he's not a bad guy by any means---just didn't work out---i broke up w/him due to lack of passion, sexual interest, romantic interest) and get through my day. i know, i know, he's always more appealing when someone else wants him and it's my ego that wants him back and not my heart. i can't get all 3 on the same page (ego/head/heart) and i want to email him and see what he has to say.............but i CAN'T email him because i told him i wanted to no contact. help----im confused. need encouragement.
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| Fri, 02-25-2005 - 4:42pm |
First off, I commend you for standing up for yourself and not letting him lead you on. For whatever reason, that is tough to do. Also, right now, since you told him to stop contacting you, you have the upper hand. You are not allowing him to string you along and he realizes this. Don't let it look like you are crawling back to him. This way, if you guys to decide to get back togather and rebuild, he will have much more respect for you. Be strong! good luck, and keep us posted.
