REVENGE

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Registered: 12-11-2004
REVENGE
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Tue, 04-18-2006 - 4:21pm
I know that revenge is like holding bile in your mouth, immature, senseless etc. but, I know that someone out there although mature and rational at the best of times must have gotten revenge against a thoughtless, selfish ex.
I am angry at myself for again being conned by my now ex who didn't have the backbone to tell me he was back with his old girlfriend who is still living with another man, when I called him he started yelling at me telling me i was just a f...k buddy and what was I doing calling him etc. I was so shocked I started to cry and of course he changed his tune and told me he was just sick of woman and needed to stay away from me. I found out 2 days later about the ex girlfriend hanging around again. Last time we broke up was because she was going to leave her cl and move in with him - something I didn't know until we started seeing each other again and he confessed.
Well she's back in his life but, he doesn't know that I know soooo....I sent a letter addressed to him (the way his name appears in the telephone book)
initial only and last name - pretending to be her cl and asking him to do the right thing and stop contacting her (indicated I got his number from her cell bill) telling him he has no morals etc. almost pleadingly sappy and I drove 1 hour from my home town (where she lives) and mailed the letter.
See if they end up together - maybe he will think she isn't telling the truth about everything either - what goes around comes around and i want to see it. Terrible I know but would love to hear others REVENGE stories please.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: stewinghen
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 4:41pm

Don't let him know he got to you. Just ignore him. I know it is hard (believe me). Also consider writing hate letters - vent on paper, tell him exactly how you feel, call him every name in the book if it will make you feel better, then burn the letters. Write them daily if need be.

Also, if you do anything, chances are you won't see the results because he will never 'get' it. He will never see it the way you do, understand how you feel or even sympathize with you. Sorry you have to go through this.


Carrie

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Registered: 01-31-2006
In reply to: stewinghen
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 5:02pm

hi stewinghen

i'm just like you too. sometimes i want to revenge to my ex. but after a day or two. i will feel bad and i dont have a gut to do it. well i just leave everything to god. like you mention what goes around comes around and the good thing is, it doesnt have to come to me at all. well i cant blame you. your ex bf is a stu...pid jerk and i guess he deserved that. i mean went you call him he doesnt have to be rude to you at all. he could just tell you that his doing something right? i'm assuming his having a bad day with his exgf and too bad you called him. there he goes he put everything out to you that day!!!

good luck