runaway

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Registered: 05-18-2007
runaway
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Wed, 05-30-2007 - 2:43pm
i have this cousin whos has a boyfriend, they been together for 2 yrs and 6 months now, at the beginning she didnt tell her parents about it b/c they wouldnt accept him as her man, bc his cousin is one of my other cousins man and he hast been a greta person... you could imagine cheating, physical abuse, 3 kids, he doesnt work, so now they are tired of hiding all the time and she finally decide to tell her parent that she's with this guy and hell breaks loose in that house her parent and sister are furious with her, they tell her he's no good he doesnt work,.... her man is such a nice person really i've gotten to know so well its incredible, so last week she and her mothe rgot into a arguement and out of anfer her mom say you have to pay ur cell phone, the loan money for college and the laptop... and if u think ur going to be in and out of the house as u plz u better look for a place to stay.... etc the agurment continues... wel my cousin ended up packing up all her stuff and is now living in her boyfiend house with his parent and two sister, her mother and two sister dont speak to her only her dad is speaking to her(although hes very upset at her)... what do u guys think (i think she shouldnt have moved out and just explaind to her mom that its ok if she doesnt accept him but that she was going to still be with him and she would be responsible for her own acts, she pretty big and know whats right and whats wrong shee 19 and he's 20) some feed back would be great.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: ashley3220
Wed, 05-30-2007 - 4:57pm

Hi ashley,


What a tough place for your cousin.