Saturday night stuck at home

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Registered: 11-09-2004
Saturday night stuck at home
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Sat, 01-12-2008 - 9:33pm

Here I am, the first Saturday night I've been home since N and I broke up. I don't know what to do with myself.


I have just spent the past hour and a half reading/writing posts on this board, but it all feels so weird. N and I had spent every single Saturday night together for a year and a half, pretty much. I always stayed over at his place and he'd drive me home the following afternoon. The only reason I missed some Saturday nights at his place

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Registered: 01-24-2007
Sat, 01-12-2008 - 9:50pm

What you are experiencing is normal, whether you lived with your parents or not! The hard part after a break up is re-discovering yourself and things to do. Its like reinventing.....It is hard for a while. I was away at college and it was even hard for me although there were tons of things to do. What was hard was not getting phone calls and texts, especially that goodnight call with an I love you at the end. Yes, I went out and it kept me busy but at the end of the night when I got home, the emptiness was there.