says he's been busy, HA! yea right
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| Fri, 11-17-2006 - 2:56pm |
Soo...I gave in again. But not exactly. I had posted earlier about this guy I've been seeing for a month and a half or so. He has been distant lately, and the last time I had talked to him was sunday...and he said he would call me later, well I still hadn't heard from him as of yesterday! I was just gonna let it fade out, because I didn't think he was gonna call at all. But I didn't think it was right how he just wasn't gonna be a man and even say anything, so i wanted to call him on it. So I texted him saying, just seeing whats up, if you don't want to talk to me anymore, thats fine not a big deal, but it would just be nice to know. And...well he texted me back saying, yea I will call you after work, I have just been really busy. He pulled the busy line! Of course. Sorry, but that is one of the oldest lines. I mean I have learned and I know that if a guy really, truly likes you, they aren't gonna ignore you for 4 days just out of the blue. Yeah he was busy with work, but I am sorry I just don't believe that you don't have time. When you like someone, you MAKE time. There have been several things to make me think he isn't all that interested anyway.
On Halloween, a lot of us we're gonna go to this bar, well I'm not old enough so I used my fake and it worked, but then I knew the girl taking the money and she made me show her my ID, so I had to leave. Well he and I went back to his car and sat there for a bit. I felt bad cuz I didn't wanna stop him from partying with friends, and he said he felt bad for me just going home (which he should!!), so I just said to take me back to my car :(, and the worst part was that they didn't even stay at the bar, they ended up going to one I could have gotten into and had a great time at. And he didn't even invite me.
He doesn't really act like he likes me a lot, I mean he will say things here and there but I don't know. And I was kinda talking to his brother before this but not interested like that. So I don't know if he is trying to show his brother he can get me, and his brother couldn't. Or if he was lonely and wanted me to visit him, cuz he lives 3 hours away, so I don't really know how it would work anyway.
So anyway, like I had said, he told me he would call me after work last night, which he did and I just shouldn't of answered, but I did and we talked like normal. But I brought up if he ever planned on telling his brother (cuz I am pretty much a secret to everyone, no one really knows about us), and he said that if it was maybe ever brought up that he would, but he didn't really plan on it or anything. What! Okay and then he tells me he might have to go to California for 3 months for work. Yeah right, like that'll work. Then I just straight up asked him if we were cool, and he just kinda mumbled, yeah we're alright. And I was like, you kinda like to avoid this stuff don't you ;), and he just totally changed the subject to talk about food! My point right there!
Basically I know that this won't work. I don't feel like he likes me that much. He isn't communicating well at all, he's confusing me and hasn't treated me the greatest. So I just have to get over it. But its hard. Cuz I like him! I want him to just call me and say he is sorry and that he wants to work it out and yada yada, yeah I'm just a girl for ya, but I don't think its too much to ask to call when you say you will, and say nice things. I know what a nice guy is like and how a girl should be treated, and this just sucks. So What do I do from now on? I am done completely as far as contacting him, it is all on him now. And I'm pretty sure he probably won't call or text at all anymore. So I guess I just let it go? Thats all you can do huh? I guess now I will be able to wear heels, he was a short one, and I love my heels, so thats good :)

to be honest with you....whatever your thinking right now is absolutely right!!!! just ignore him totally without even broken things with him...myex bf did that to me, that being cool feet...very prosrating right???
they like using work for excuses...if a guy really in to you like you mention they will make a way to contact you...i seen it with my brother...his a busy guy...but for his gf his always making way to talk to her and to please her when she is mad....isnt that so sweet!!!
i mean before its too late and you get more attach with him...I THINK THATS GONNA BE A BIG PROBLEM FOR YOU RIGHT??
good luck
....."So I texted him saying, just seeing whats up, if you don't want to talk to me anymore, thats fine not a big deal, but it would just be nice to know.".....