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| Fri, 06-09-2006 - 4:10pm |
I found out today that my boyfriend of 8 months has been on eHarmony. He has gone on 2 dates that I know of....a friend of a friend works at the bar he happened to go to on each date. So, he has not come clean with me yet. I had a gut feeling a few weeks ago that something was not right. So, I did the mature thing and talked to him about it. I asked if he wanted to see other people and if he had been seeing other people. He said no to both questions. He even appended that he was not looking to see anyone else, and should his feelings change he would talk to me about it first, not just go and do it.
nice.
He is out of the country for 3 weeks, and I can only reach him by email and phone. I sent an email asking if he had been dating. It is the middle of the night where he is so I have not had a response. I know he has but I want him to admit it.
Question is, if he says he is done with that, do I believe it, accept it and try to move forward with him? Or is that just too naive to even consider?

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