Second Chances

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Second Chances
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Thu, 02-21-2008 - 10:51am

Hello everyone!

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Thu, 02-21-2008 - 11:15am

....."I missed him very much when we were apart I don't understand why I'm not elated now.".....

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Thu, 02-21-2008 - 7:31pm

Welcome to the board tigarlily22,


Sandra gave you excellent advice. HOWEVER, this part of your post jumped out at me:


::My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months.

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Registered: 06-21-2005
Fri, 02-22-2008 - 11:24am

I appreciate both of your advice.

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Fri, 02-22-2008 - 2:23pm

Hmm, now I gotta change my input to you because as far as I'm concerned, cheating is one of those no-questions-asked dealbreakers. I wouldn't have input that to you at all if I had known cheating, and so very soon into the relationship, had been part of the reason to break up. From what you posted in the first one, it just seemed it was an all-too-common case of too much too soon that leads to suffocation and boredom, which is pretty easily fixed. But cheating, girl, there's no reason to fix this, none at all. And definitely NOT when it happened less than six months into a relationship.

What to do or what to say, "I've given this more thought and I don't feel that I can continue with this after all. I'm not one to toy with someone's emotions and so I'm not making this decision lightly, but it is final. I really wish you well."

You really need to look out for yourself and I know you can do it. I wouldn't worry about him too much. We reap what we sow, every time.

Good luck,

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Fri, 02-22-2008 - 7:23pm

Okay I did it...


I had been avoiding him all day and I finally called him and told him it wasn't working out.

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Sat, 02-23-2008 - 12:56pm

::Maybe he was the one for me and I just dumped him.