Secret Crush...

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2006
Secret Crush...
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Tue, 03-06-2007 - 10:05am

Hello, everyone,

I was hoping that someone could shed some light on my situation. My bf and I recently reunited after a 5-month LDR. He took a job half way across the country and stayed with an older married couple for that period of time. Well, I have a suspicion that he developed a crush for that lady of the house but I have no way of proving it. I know that they still talk on a regular basis but is this enough to end the relationship? She will be coming to our city in April and my bf was very exited by the idea. Any advice would be great help. Thanks, Sky.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 03-06-2007 - 2:37pm

Hi blue_sky and welcome to the board.


Wow, sometimes when people develop a crush, they don't like it when it's pointed out, because they want to enjoy the 'high' feeling that the other person brings to them....they are flattered, their ego stroked and they feel good about themselves so they don't want it to end.


Have you met the woman?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2007
Wed, 03-21-2007 - 3:24am
i say spy on him when she gets into town or have somebody else spy on him. why suspect something when u can put your suspicion aside and find out the truth.