Separated guy

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Registered: 08-06-2011
Separated guy
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Sat, 08-06-2011 - 8:50am

I started dating a separated guy who told me he was getting a divorce, he separated earlier this year and now lives on his own. He has two young children and is in regular contact with his wife and children. He is very supportive of his wife and intends to always be there if she should need him, which I understand. He initiated the split due to constant arguing.

One important aspect to note is that he now tells me that him and his wife will not divorce till one of them makes a serious commitment to someone else.

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Registered: 12-05-2010
Sat, 08-06-2011 - 11:52pm

Dating someone who is separated, but not divorced, is often a dicey situation at best.

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Sun, 08-07-2011 - 12:02pm

I agree with Trenner.

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Registered: 08-06-2011
Sun, 08-07-2011 - 12:37pm

Thanks for the responses.

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Mon, 08-08-2011 - 1:09am

I didn't say or mean to imply that you raised your voice to him....and even if you DID......are you not allowed to get angry about something?