Sept. 16 to now..what worked...
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| Fri, 10-28-2005 - 5:18pm |
Hi gang,
It's been since Sept. 16th since my May Dec, LD man of 3+ years and I split. It was done on the phone and I then had 3 weeks of misery. My attempts at NC was largely unsuccessful. The week of Oct. 7 I saw him and we had sex and many tears, laughs and debates. Then he left again. And since I have had NC. I have read It's Called A Break Up Because It Is Broken, and Mars and Venus Starting Over. I am praying and meditating and doing LOTS of work with a great counselor. Today is the 28th and the pain has subsided. I feel some hope and joy. I feel a weight lifted and I am optimistic. I also realize that he made this choice to end it and start something new and while it hurts, it was for the best. We will be friends someday perhaps in a few months. I love him and miss him a little.
I am here to tell you the pain eases and with a lot of work peace can return and joy as well..
HUGS to all of you..some days are easier than others..but..
| Fri, 10-28-2005 - 6:48pm |
