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Registered: 02-01-2006
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Thu, 06-22-2006 - 12:51am
I recently ended it w my bofyfriend of ten months because he just isnt for me. As you know, I like a romantic...someone who shows care for me like a man. I have other posts..you may know me from them. He knows I want a romantic and have told him how i love flowers and he never gets them for me. after i ended it finally, he pleaded over and over. im like no. u know i wanted flowers. if u cared u would have gotten them by now ..my type of guy, which isnt you..would have tried to win me back by now..sorry. no offense. ur not my type..ur not the one..u r who u r and u cant change. but i wanna se what my type is. So i told him im gonna go on a date and he can too. So after we spoke....he finally sent me flowrs but i think its way too late..he only did it bc he is being threatened by me ending the relationship. i want the flowers.for no reason..the nice things for no reason. he cant gimme that. so i told him it means nothing its too late..ten months too late. the meaning is diff. he didnt wanna get them. i told him...to get them...so after we speak online and he tells me he thinks i dress too sexy since men on the street and in cabs of nyc r giving me a lot of attention latley. he sayd my skirts and tank tops r too low cut and i know they r not. i never show my but or my boobs so much..but he told me his parents thought i dressed too provocative..i dont think s. i dress like im 20 and enjoying my life with tank tops and fashion. He says he loves me and wants me. does he have any place to tell me i dress too sexy after all this and me saying i wanna end it.
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Registered: 05-08-2006
In reply to: tunatartar
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 10:03am

You ended a relationship because he didn't get you flowers?

That is really lame. Sorry to sound mean, but come on. If you really care about someone you don't break up with them because they didn't get you flowers.

This sounds like something that would happen in highschool.

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Registered: 02-01-2006
In reply to: tunatartar
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 12:48pm
No. because he didnt show any affection
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In reply to: tunatartar
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 12:50pm
Actually, Amber, you may have missed some of her earlier posts because she posted as a guest I think. There's a lot more to this story than her just not getting flowers ... Please try to be more understanding, as others have been of you ... While it's true that it would be lame to break up with someone just because they didn't give you flowers, there's really far more here than meets the eye. This guy just wasn't present in the relationship and really didn't treat her with the affection and attention that we all need and deserve.
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Registered: 05-25-2006
In reply to: tunatartar
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 1:42pm
No, he does not have a say in how you dress. I remember one of my exes LOVED it when I went out with all these tight, sexy outfits when we were together... then after I broke up with him, he told me those EXACT SAME outfits were inappropriate and too revealing and guys would take advantage of me. Whatever. Flaunt what you've got!
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Registered: 01-12-2005
In reply to: tunatartar
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 4:03pm

You've had your reasons building up why this is probably a very good decision for you, so don't let anyone tell you your heart isn't speaking the truth to you.

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Registered: 05-08-2006
In reply to: tunatartar
Thu, 06-22-2006 - 4:08pm

Ok, then I understand completely, by your post it sounded like you just wanted to leave him because he didn't get you flowers. But now I completely understand.

Just whatever you do, follow your heart.

I wish you luck

~Amber~