She's not in-love with him any more
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She's not in-love with him any more
| Fri, 02-24-2006 - 3:45pm |
She has loved him for over ten years. They were the perfect pair. So much in-love, with a lot in common. Then five years ago,she started to feel different. She still loved him but was not in-love with him. It took her all that time before she told him. His heart was broken. He imagined they would always be together and would grow old together.She is almost 40 and he is 36. What could have gone wrong? He treated her so well; flowers for valentine, every year; beautiful gifts for no reason, other than he loved her; and always remembered occasions. She swears there is no other man in her life, and that is true. She just wants to be on her own again and asked for a divorce. She agonized over her feelings for years and said counseling is out of the question. She doesn't want to go through all that again. They are selling their home and she will be moving out soon. They will remain good friends. He pray's that by letting her go she may return in a year or two. He thinks she may need some time alone to sort over what she really wants. They also have a son who they will share. He is very emotional and tries to be strong in front of his son and wife, but to me (his mom) he shares his agony and pain. The family is behind both of them. We all love her and that will not change. She is a very dear person. I feel so sad. There is nothing we can do but love them, but it hurts all the same. Just needed to talk and see if anyone else has gone through this. Thanks
