Should I call him?
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| Wed, 02-07-2007 - 10:31pm |
My ex repeatedly cheated on me and when I found out and confronted him about it, he wouldn't admit it, only got mad at me for snooping and eventually broke it off. This happened five months ago and I still feel like it was yesterday. I have always said I'd never forgive cheating but I loved this man so much, and we have a child together. I wanted to work it out and build trust but he just didn't want to be with me I guess. I have to talk to him all the time and I think that is why it is so hard to move on. I have been staying friendly with him, I think deep down part of me hopes he will come crawling back eventually but I know I can't hold my breath and I just don't know how to get past this.
One question I have is how do I move on given these circumstances. And the other, his birthday is coming up very soon and I'm wondering if I should call to wish him a happy birthday - my child is too young to call him so it's not like I could use that as an excuse, but I don't know if calling him myself will just work against this healing that I desperately need :(

Do not call him, you will opening that wound again. If you really want to get past this, do not call. He has not given you any indication that he wants to change things and if you get back together things would probably staus quo. Stop looking for excuses to call him and get on with your life.
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