should i go or not?

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Registered: 04-04-2006
should i go or not?
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Sat, 05-13-2006 - 11:21pm
Hey I've been with my boyfriend for about eight months. But we broke up 2 months ago. We are trying to be friends not really working and I know it won't work out right now. His sister suposedly invited me to her wedding. I asked him if it's still ok to go and he said it's fine. But now I think about it I don't think I want to go because I was invited just because I was his girlfriend now I'm not. So I should just forget about it right?
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Sun, 05-14-2006 - 2:49am
If you feel OK by attending the wedding, go. After all, his sister is your friend and she invited you.
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Registered: 05-10-2006
Mon, 05-15-2006 - 10:45am
What do you mean she 'supposedly' invited you? You are either invited (they mailed an invitation to you) or not...if its just something you heard, I wouldn't bother attending...they are probably just being nice....
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 05-15-2006 - 3:08pm
Yes, you should just forget about it. Don't go.
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Registered: 01-31-2006
Mon, 05-15-2006 - 6:52pm

hi rose

why dont you ask the sister if she still wants you to come. but for my own opinion dont involve his sister coz she doesnt have Nothing to do with you guys. so its better for you to be there and actually you dont want to look bad at all right?

what about one of this days you and your exbf get back together again. everytime you gonna be with her you will feel bad for not showing off. atleast be there. show her that things didnt change for you and her. DO THIS SO YOU WONT LOOK BAD AT ALL...GOOD LUCK