Should I hang on?

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Registered: 12-18-2006
Should I hang on?
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Wed, 12-20-2006 - 5:09pm
Saturday was an awful day. My boyfriend of 6 months 'basically' broke up with me. We spoke on the phone several times that day and with every conversation, it got worse. At first he wanted a break for a couple of days. The next phone call, he wanted to split up for a while. Then he wanted some space. Then the very last call for the night, he said he wants to keep talking, do what we can and if it's meant to be it's meant to be. He texted me Monday night and called me yesterday. I wrote back and answered the phone because i don't want to ignore him. But one thing's for sure--i WON'T call him. I can't. I need my dignity. He wants his space, so all I can do is give it to him. We agreed to still exchange Christmas gifts (my idea). Do you think we might get back together? Everytime that thought pops into my mind, I erase it. Because as Morgan Freeman said in Shawshank Redemption "Hope is a dangerous thing." (or something like that). I want to call him and see if he wants to meet on Saturday night. That's our date night. But is he still my boyfriend? Do I have a right to call him? What's the deal?!
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Registered: 06-22-2006
Wed, 12-20-2006 - 5:44pm

I know how confusing this particular conversation can be, I truly do.

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