Should I just be over him ?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2007
Should I just be over him ?
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Thu, 11-15-2007 - 1:45pm

Hello :


I would like some advice, I have been with my bf for 10 months. we broke up for a month and now we are back together, though he is 26 and img 19

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 11-15-2007 - 3:15pm

Welcome to the board suina3,


I'm not sure you should 'just be over him?' when a relationship ends, there is a grieving process. The fact that he's avoiding you and not returning your calls says a lot.


Consider some of these:


How To Get Over Your Breakup

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-05-2007
Thu, 11-15-2007 - 9:15pm
One thing that I still have a problem with is 'stop calling him.' You have said that communication is missing. I think the first step before anything is stop your behavior which is calling him.When you are able to do that for awhile, you can probably think logically about the whole relationship. Thats all the advice I can give you right now. I'm pretty much in the same boat with u! :-(
I've been asking myself, do I really want to chase this man all my life?