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Should I move on?
| Sun, 11-21-2004 - 12:56pm |
I broke up with my boyfriend 12 weeks ago and the break-up really hit me hard. It was out of the blue and completely his decision. As time passes, I'm beginning to feel better but I still get that gut-wrenching feeling when I think of what I've lost.
For the last few weeks though, a really nice guy has been asking me to go for a drink with him. He knows what happened and is very understanding but I don't know whether I can bring myself to go out with him. I know it's only a drink but the thought of getting into a situation where I could be hurt again really scares me. He's lovely though and I'm sure that if anything did happen, it could be good. If I went out with him would it help me get over the ex? If I wasn't feeling like this I'd definately go for it. I'm very confused, please help me! xxxx
For the last few weeks though, a really nice guy has been asking me to go for a drink with him. He knows what happened and is very understanding but I don't know whether I can bring myself to go out with him. I know it's only a drink but the thought of getting into a situation where I could be hurt again really scares me. He's lovely though and I'm sure that if anything did happen, it could be good. If I went out with him would it help me get over the ex? If I wasn't feeling like this I'd definately go for it. I'm very confused, please help me! xxxx

I think I will meet up with this other guy, perhaps for a coffee or something. I really don't want to be stifled at the moment and the thought of the whole 'getting to know someone' is quite exhausting at the moment but if it goes anywhere, things will go slowly. xxxxx
I broke up with my bf about eight weeks ago. His idea. He still wants contact though and recently suggested that he still wants me(sexwise I think)! I still love him greatly. I did go out and dated a little(not at all seriously) shortly after we broke up. Mainly it was just something I had to do for myself to keep myself distracted. I recommend dating if only just to get your mind of things. Just be sure to let the other person know if you're not interested in serious dating. Good Luck!
Kim