Should I put him out?

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Registered: 09-13-2004
Should I put him out?
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Mon, 09-13-2004 - 3:57pm
Long story short...3 yrs no children together, he lost his job and depends on me. He cheated I found out and I ended our relationship. Now.....do I put him out or give him a chance to get on his feet and move on?

I need your opinion... we will have this discussion tonight.

Not angry or bitter......just hurt.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 09-13-2004 - 4:41pm
You put him out. He lost any rights to your friendship or support when he cheated. Besides, you won't be able to start healing so long as he's there.

He needs to find someone else to depend on.

Sheri

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Registered: 06-30-2002
Mon, 09-13-2004 - 8:04pm

I was married to a man like this for 6 years.


 


"OMG, I got engaged, the world will never be the same!...."


&nbs

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Registered: 09-15-2003
Tue, 09-14-2004 - 6:02am
Give this clown the boot. Men should be earning money and if he had any self esteem, would not expect you to be a provider. Cheating involved because he had too much time on his hands not looking for a job? I would not give a second chance. I'm in a similar situation and it hurts a lot. Give it time. You will find someone whom you will be proud to introduce as "your boyfriend".