Should I stay or should I go?
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Should I stay or should I go?
| Mon, 11-08-2004 - 5:15pm |
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. He seems to be really serious. He's even talking about marriage, but the fact of the matter is, We're only 18. Sometimes he scares me by saying, "You're what keeps me going from day to day", "I don't know what I would do without you", or "You're more important to me that life itself". I do love him back, but there's one thing, I don't feel like i want to spend the rest of my life with him. For one reason is he lied to me telling me he was going to go on to technical college, then the other day he tells me he only told me that because he knew i thought school was important. What he really wants to do is buy a farm and farm the rest of his life. Truthfully, not to be shallow, that is the only thing i dont want to do the most. I never, ever, want to be a farmer's wife. And to make things even more confusing now, i found out that a guy i started hanging out with lately likes me. And truthfully, ive been crushing over him secretly for a while now. To make things about this guy better, he wants to be a lawyer, and he never wants to own a farm because his parents do right now and he knows for sure he doesnt want to. Not to mention he is very smart and good looking. I need some help from all of you out there. Give me your opinion on what I shoud do. Should i break up with my current boyfriend whom i still love, but can't picture spending the rest of my life with, even though he wants to, or should i stay with him and try to work it out?
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| Tue, 11-09-2004 - 11:37pm |
Only you can make this decison (Yeah I know I'm a lot of help...lol).I think you need to take some time to yourself with no distractions and with no contact from either guy. Take the time and figure out what you really want, who you really miss.....and then go for it. But don't string your bf along....if you don't think you want to spend forever with him, then I think you need to tell him but if you only started having these feelings since you found out about this other guy....it could just be clouded judgement. Good luck and keep us posted!!

