Sick to my stomach

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Registered: 02-28-2007
Sick to my stomach
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Wed, 02-06-2008 - 11:36pm
Well I have been thinking a lot about my exe lately.

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Registered: 10-07-2007
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 12:08am
The pain will go away if you avoid him at ALL COSTS. Any person who rubs it in their ex's face that they are with so-and-so, getting married, having sex, etc. is a lowlife. If he calls you, don't answer. If you see him in public and he comes up to you and starts talking to you about his fiancee, politely excuse yourself. You can't get over someone unless you do these things.
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Registered: 09-25-2007
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 12:21am

My heart goes out to you. I wish we could just sit over coffee and comfort each other because I went thru this a few months ago.

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Registered: 02-28-2007
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 12:32am
I don't talk to him.
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Registered: 10-18-2006
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 12:46am

Hey Lindsey!


First off, YOU WILL LOVE AGAIN!


The pain you feel will eventually lessen over time but you have to give it time and be proactive in your healing.

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Registered: 02-04-2008
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 12:58am

When my ex left me he told me he learned from our relationship. That

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Registered: 02-28-2007
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 2:08am
U are right.
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Registered: 02-04-2008
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 4:14am

With you 100%. I know for a fact that i am only missing the person that i thought he was. The idea of him, like you said. Usually in the beginning those guys are what we want them to be, they are the perfect guy, and then they show their true selves and we can't stand them, but we stick around because we love them. Then they leave, and so they give that next girl the "perfect guy" again, but more than likely they will turn into that same guy that they did with us. Who knows, maybe they'll stay with that girl, but i'm sure you know what we see on the outside of other peoples relationships are not what it really is. Obviously these guys that we are talkin about are cruel and mean, they're not going to change, they might briefly, but for good? no way.


I think we girls who have been in relationships with these heartless, arrogant guys are strongest. We're so much more stronger than we were before we had them. :)

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Registered: 09-25-2007
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 1:33pm

You mentioned long distance-

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2007
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 1:42pm
You are right.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 02-07-2008 - 2:33pm

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