Signs

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Registered: 02-09-2006
Signs
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Wed, 07-26-2006 - 10:52am

I'm just wondering if anyone believes that they get "signs" that something is going to happen. In the past few days, I seem to see or here my ex's name everyone. Now it's not an unusual name, but the spelling is. Also, on the drive home yesterday I swear every third car was the same make as his; again not an overly popular make. And just now I heard a radio answer say "fill your boots". The same phrase my ex used instead of saying "whatever".

I'm probably just reading something into nothing. I know for a fact he's out of the country. It just seems weird.

Kathy

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Registered: 05-08-2006
In reply to: kathylandb
Wed, 07-26-2006 - 11:46am

I do believe in signs. Trust me. From the week starting July 10th through July 19 (the day I saw my ex for the 1st time) I kept seeing trucks around that looked like his. I kept hearing and seeing things that would remind me of him and I could not get him out of my head. And then he calls and says he wants to see me. I trusted my intuition and believed that they were signs at the time, and I guess they were. Because he showed up and now we are trying to work on things. Kind of casually dating I guess you could call it.

Just trust your intuition and remember if something happens it was meant to happen.

~Amber~

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Registered: 05-09-2006
In reply to: kathylandb
Wed, 07-26-2006 - 12:44pm
The same things happen to me! I kept seeing his name everywhere and the make of his car. I actually kept thinking I was seeing him everywhere...driving in a car, wlaking down the road, etc. It's a trick of the mind. I also think that when we are going through a breakup, things we would normally not pay attention to all of a sudden jump out at us. We probably see things all the time but we never paid attention to them.
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Registered: 04-28-2006
In reply to: kathylandb
Wed, 07-26-2006 - 5:57pm

Oh yes!!! I have experienced the same thing. I have seen the same type of car everywhere I look, sometimes when I am not even looking for it. I even seen his name when I was driving down the highway one morning to work, crying my eyes out thinking about him, and then BAM!, it was a sign on the highway dedicating this part of the highway to a person with the same name. I almost ran off the road!!!

Do you also believe in dreams? I had a dream a little over two years ago. This was before we really got together. I dream that we were in a place like a big hall or something and out walks a tall lady who was probably a bridesmaid and then out walks this short petite girl. After while, he comes out and the placed was really crowded, but it seemed that no one paid any attention to what was going on except for me because everyone was just talking and mingling. He walked up to this short petite girl and kissed her on the jaw and he took off running. I was in the crowd, so very hurt that he was getting married, and when I seen him running, I took off behind him. He started running down this long hallway and I was running behind him. No one noticed this but me. When he turned and seen me running behind him, he started running even faster. Finally, I just stopped in my tracks and threw my hands up and said, "forget him." I turned around and I started running back in the direction I had come from. When I turned my head to look and see where he had gone, he was running behind me, then I started running faster. After that, I woke up.

This dream has stuck in my mind all this time. Now after over two years, we broke up in February and he told people he was getting married. I also found out that this girl he was suppose to marry was a small petite girl. I have now heard that he was not going to marry her. He called it off and I don't know why. They have already separated once and he has went back.

Well, just a dream, don't know what will happen. THERE ARE SO MANY SIGNS!!!!

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Registered: 06-22-2006
In reply to: kathylandb
Fri, 07-28-2006 - 1:13am

I believe in some signs, but in this case, I think it's just your conscious picking up on the fact that your subconscious is concentrating on him.

Myspace Codes

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Registered: 06-27-2006
In reply to: kathylandb
Fri, 07-28-2006 - 9:54pm
I definitely believe in signs. I've been seeing my ex's name a lot and it's not a common name in this country (he's from Italy). My friends have been seeing his name a lot as well! Weird, huh? I've also been having a lot of dreams about him. I never dreamed about him when we were together.
Forget the scientific reasoning. Haven't you ever thought of a song, turned on the radio, it just happened to be playing? Or had everything go wrong one morning, causing you to leave your house later than you normally would have only to discover that if you had left on time you might have been involved in that five car pile up on the highway?
Maybe you're going to hear from him out of the blue??? It's our dreams that keep us going!
Christine
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Registered: 12-05-2005
In reply to: kathylandb
Sat, 07-29-2006 - 11:50pm

I do. Its really really freaky sometimes that 6th sense. The day that my ex broke up with me last year, felt 'off'. I was shopping in the mall before going over after work and things at that point just started feeling totally surreal. I had no indication that anything was out of the ordinary otherwise, but I couldn't shake that feeling. I went over and as soon as he shut the door and said "we need to talk" I knew *exactly* what was coming.

I was interested in another guy a few months ago, who happened to be a good friend. We were going to start dating, but the timing wasn't right. He had told me it would 'be awhile', and I had no reason to doubt him. A few weeks ago instinct started kicking in and I just knew something was off, that there was something going on with some other girl, but I had no evidence to prove it. But the thoughts were still there. Friday night he proved me right, snuggling up and smooching another, younger, girl. Needless to say I was hurt, pissed off, angry, and shocked. I considered this fellow a very good friend and it was a total kick in the stomach. But I knew it. I knew it was coming.

Its creepy. I need to listen to my bloody 6th sense more. Its yet to prove me wrong.