Snooped After.......

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2004
Snooped After.......
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Fri, 10-15-2004 - 2:44pm
I recently found out that my x bf had someone while we were together to pretend to be someone else and talk to me online. What do you guys think about that one?

I was pretty shocked to hear this from my ex. Why would someone invate my privacy like this? Nothing came of that because I was sincere to my x bf nor have I ever cheated on him or anyone in my life. Is this "normal" behavior?

I neverhad anything like thishappen to me. I think it is a little psycho. What do you think? Is that something to be concerned about?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Fri, 10-15-2004 - 2:48pm
sounds like it is a good thing he is your ex....

he must have some trust issues so i would be careful for the next few months but just be glad you are rid of him.

good luck

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2004
Sat, 10-16-2004 - 12:54pm
No, that's not normal behavior at all!! It shows that he doesn't trust you which is a HUGE issue!!!
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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2004
Sat, 10-16-2004 - 1:58pm
I think you right. Trust should have never been an issue. I was always honest. I never had someone do this to me.

I am not with him anymore so I am blessed.

Now his friends, all of them are married, all of them have each a gf besides the wife. I guess that is where his dis trust comes from who knows.

Maybe I should have really looked at that fact before I got involved.