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|Mon, 10-29-2012 - 6:19pm|
Long story short my boyfriend and I were living together for two years and he started getting more and more disrespectful of my time and feelings. I told him to either treat me with love and respect or get out.. he chose to leave. I couldn't believe it. I was so upset... we went through the whole thing, didn't talk for two weeks, he came back for his stuff and that was it. Then he came back a week later singing a different tune and I thought he realized his mistakes and was willing to make changes. I took him back (not moving back in though) and things were great for three months. Then this past Thursdy he broke up with me... we were having a conversation and he was going out of town with his brother this weekend. I thought I was going to see him Friday and he said no because they had to get going. I asked im to be more considerate when making plans because now that's three weekends in a row he has made plans without me. I wasn't upset, I just asked that in the future he be more considerate. And he said "it's not going to work." That was Thursday, and I haven't heard from him... it's now Monday... I really love him and things were better! That is the most confusing part... he came back and made the changes. He was talking about plans for Thanksgiving, Christmas, an upcoming wedding... he even was talking about a ring... HE brought it up. I am sooooooo confused. He has done this before where he would break up with me and then I would ask what I could do to make it work and we would talk it out.... but I can't keep this up. I am not calling, I figure he wants me to chase him since that's what I have done in the past.... but I am not doing that again. Any advice? What if he does try to come back?